Whether you are a teenager or a teen-at-heart, first dates are always nerve racking. High and lows of emotions are usually felt around this time and it is perfectly normal to feel awkward and tensed. Only, seniors know how to handle themselves well in face of a stranger but they do get nervous especially if they have been out of practice for some time now. Also, seniors are known for better adaptability in embarrassing situations and less fussy with dates.

Let us remember that first dates should be fun, not uptight. In order for us to accomplish that, we should do our first dates with an open mind. Open minds will bring lively conversations and great interaction with your date thus making a second date possible. Your first date should establish common ground between you and your date, connections should be made at this point to determine the outcome of your date but this should not push you into something you are not. Moreover, take your time before choosing the right partner for you and be very clear with your intentions before going out with someone to avoid future complications.

When planning for a date, consider common interests and select a type of activity that will encourage good conversation. Dancing is a great way to get close and have fun at the same time. If you are somewhat doubtful of your dancing capabilities, dancing lessons are great just to freshen up your style. You can also bring your date as a partner for these lessons. By sharing a physical activity, it creates a bond and helps you keep active which is very good for your health.

For casual, relaxing and quite romantic date, arrange for a picnic date. Picnic dates are great especially if you want to have some time alone with your date. Just make sure you packed enough topics to last you until it’s time to go home. Shop with your date for food and beverages so you will know your date’s preferences. Walking around parks or just enjoying the sight is quite enjoyable if you are both comfortable with each other.

Museums guarantee a lively chat for first time dates. Same goes for bookstores which encourage intellectual exchange of views and opinions. By way of, you will get to know your date and be able to express yourself in return. End your date by side stepping to some intimate coffee shop for a quick rundown and followup.

For outdoorsy-type of date, you might want to try mild physical activities first like golfing, bowling, boating and kayaking. These activities will divert you away from awkward moments since most likely, you will be talking about the boat and the water. This is best for those who have no idea what to talk about during first dates.

Romance is never too old for anybody. We are all entitled to love and be loved. As seniors, we have the right to enjoy ourselves and find the perfect partner for us since we already played our vital part for the community. Dating is fun and it gives you a sense of purpose. If you are just starting out in the dating arena after sometime of married life, it is best to go out with friends first or someone you are familiar with, just to test the waters. This way, you stay safe since you know who you are going out with and will also eliminate the possibility of quiet, dull moments. Dates don’t have to be romantic always. You can also date just because you want to go out or you just need to see other people. Senior dating should be painless as possible so let go of all that’s haunting you and let’s have some fun!