The connection between a grandparent and his or her grandchild can never be explained; in fact, it was even said that the love which transpires between these individuals are much stronger than the love occurring in a parent-child relationship. Maybe because grandparents are better listeners than the kid’s parents and grandkids are more affectionate than your own kids. The generation gap certainly exists between these people but it can be easily overlooked especially if both are having a great bonding time with each other.
The best support their parents could get when it comes to child rearing is the one coming from you—the grandparent. Although sometimes, parenting methods differ greatly and most likely to get in the way, close relationship between you and your grandchild is highly encouraged.
Grandparents keep their grandkids grounded and provide some sense of family history. This is something that will keep them tied up to their roots. Sometimes, having someone with character provides your grandkids a secured feeling of belongingness and comfort. Seniors also help mold this generation and support them to a healthier development– emotionally and mentally.
Unfortunately, most seniors are not given this chance to bond with their precious grandchildren. Due to the lifestyle we are currently leading, it’s quite impossible to catch up and have a little time to reestablish connection with our loved-ones, much less our active, growing grandkids. However, there are ways to encourage healthy bonding time with your grandchild such as frequent visits and including them in annual out-of-town trips to interesting places. If your grandchild is living close to your place, join classes that you can attend together such as yoga classes or pottery classes—anything that you and your grandchild can do together. Not only are these classes fun but they can be beneficial to your health as well. One great idea to consider is inviting them to spend one night in your house and create memories by making a family tree. This will amuse kids seeing you and their parents growing up and going through stages of life. Holidays are the best times to invite your grandkids over.
Technology today presents excellent solution to get in-touch with faraway loved-ones. You can send them emails or talk to them using a video phone. Once the connection is established, it should not just stop there. This is one relationship that needs to be nurtured time and again which is not too hard to do especially if you are enjoying each other’s company.
