Oftentimes, decisions about caring for a loved-one come in haste such that you may find yourself being the family-appointed caregiver without them ever consulting you and just because you are either the most convenient amongst family members or you allow people to push you over. Not that you are against the decision since this is a loved-one needing help however, caregiving, as you should know, is much more than that.
Your love for the care recipient may not be enough—and most of the time, it is indeed not enough—to qualify you as a caregiver. Again, it takes a lot more than that and you should realize this before you accept such job since it is the care recipient’s—and yours too—well-being that is at stake. At best, you should take time to think it over and assess your capabilities as a person before you take on a family caregiving job.
Assessment is the first step in determining if you are fit for the job. Experts suggest that you sit down and write in a paper your strengths and weaknesses. How about fears? Or perhaps a choice, if one day you realize you are not really up for the job? Include your physical limitations as well as emotional ones particularly in caregiving. If you haven’t had any experience in caregiving then you might want to give it a second thought and seek counsel from someone who has.
You should also think outside of your circle. It is most recommended that the elderly or the patient maintains a somewhat or close to normal, everyday life. Is this something you and your home can give, aside of course from the medical assistance your patient will need? Do you have the financial capabilities to support and pay for what your senior may need? Your home, for one, may be needing some renovations to accommodate your senior’s needs, is this something you can afford?
Do note that caregiving has an impact to every aspect of your life. Your marriage, career, relationship with your kids, financial and even the time you set aside for yourself. This will all change or will undergo considerable adjustments. Expect family caregiving to lessen your time working thus lessening your money-earning power. It is not also impossible to one day find yourself dipping your hand into your savings just to make ends meet. It is also noted that those who accepted a caregiving responsibility often find themselves thinking of a career change after losing their jobs.
Indeed, family caregiving has a lot to consider but then again, it is not at all impossible to do. You will be needing help, that’s for sure. Never hesitate to ask for help especially when an opportunity presents itself. Discuss with your family and friends before you actually make a decision since they will be your support system. Support groups and organizations are also there to help you when needed.
