Sex is good. At any age. Just as long as you can handle it. And it is not only by means of sexual satisfaction, it goes way beyond that, it even has health benefits if you want to go all scientific about it. First off, sex is a great stress reliever which may explain why after a row with your partner, all you wanted to do was to have a little roll in the hay. It is a good calorie burner, of course, as sex tends to be a lot physical however, there are some common misconceptions about sex that more or less, throw off a senior from enjoying sex. Below are some misconceptions and what seniors can do about it.
• Hot sex is age-related. You know that isn’t true. If it were true then Ashton and Demi would have long been separated and there will be no successful May-December love affairs other than those unrealistically “unconditional” partnerships. Hot sex can be enjoyed no matter what your age is, it can even be done without penetration, as long as you both get yourselves satisfied with the act.
• You must always have raging hormones. Unless you’re a late bloomer and you are just experiencing your “adolescence rush” then it is not possible to always be in the mood for sex. In reality, a normal person will be very well satisfied with average 4 times a week of sex and it will vary greatly from one libido to another. Never expect yours to be any different.
• Everything you see in porn is true. So not true even if porn claims to be the greatest sex education instrument ever invented by man. For one, how can biggie penis sizes be ever true? You don’t just get that in real life and it is not always about the size especially at a certain age, say, 70ish?.
• Being sexy is shedding your clothes in front of your man. Even your man won’t confidently shed his clothes in front of you even if his life depends on it, I bet. Let’s face it, as we age, there are things we rather keep to ourselves and one of them is the shape of our tummies. However, you can still feel sexy—and actually be sexy without being an exhibitionist. Try on some sexy lingerie that will cleverly hide your embarrassing parts.
• It is too much physical work. It need not be, unless you prefer it to be. In order to have a fulfilling sex, both concerned parties should be able to connect perfectly, not only by using their bodies but they should also be in-tune with one another emotionally. Remember, it should not always be physical, it can also be emotionally satisfying.
