Oh how I love the term! Being a cheapskate has its own downside, sometimes people won’t take it well just because you are acting out of the norm or, by being a cheapskate by nature you sometimes forget to extend proper behavior expected from you by other people. You need not be as you can still be a senior with etiquette while being a cheapskate and save few more extra bucks!
Good news is, being frugal nowadays is not anymore embarrassing as it is now being adapted as a way of life—there is even a book written about it! Cheapskates are now coming out of their closets and proudly showing the world their way of life. Whether you are just thinking about adapting this kind of lifestyle or a pro already, below are some tips on how to stay decent while maintaining frugality:
* Don’t be ashamed to tackle the issue of money. In order words, don’t let it bother you because if you do, it may not allow you enough time to react decently. Remember etiquette is about knowing the right things to say and do, it is not easy to be knowing the right things if you are taken by surprise. If you need ask a lunch companion to split the bill, then do so rather than ending up unexpectedly paying for all of it and blurting out embarrassing words just because you didn’t ask.
* Be the “cheapskate who tips”. Just because you are a cheapskate doesn’t mean you don’t tip. A decent 20% is enough. They deserve your tip, you should give it to them.
* “Regifting” is now acceptable. However, make sure you are not “regifting” to the same person who gave you the gift which he is about to receive! Recycling of gifts is also acceptable, just as long as you think the receiver needs it and the gift is not badly worn out.
* A simple “thank you” is enough. Not all token of appreciation is in material form. If you are given a gift, a simple thank you can be enough, or perhaps you can return the favor by doing something the other person will appreciate. These acts of kindness are more heartfelt than any other gift you can give a person.
* Any minor occasion you won’t be able to attend, you don’t have to send anything. Call or email the celebrant and express your regret for not being able to go to their party however, for a major one such as weddings or perhaps your boss’ birthday party, you certainly have to send a gift.
* Had been a house-guest, now what? You can extend the same offer to your host if the need be. It’s only ethical to offer your house or a room in your house if your friend suddenly find herself needing a place to stay.
