Stroke, indeed, has a deep and immediate effect on both senior and their families. However, an attack is only the beginning of a long, and sometimes painful journey. If you ask me, the scary part of having stroke is life after it since there will be many drastic changes that most of us are not even ready for it. Going home may feel like you’re on your own now, and aside from the sufferer’s health, there are so many things that will require attention not to mention the dent in your pocket that is sure to come—if it is not already dented by now.
The problem with life after stroke is that things may look like they are happening all at once and nobody is in charge. Transition will be hard as well as adapting to lifestyle changes. Moreover, there is always a scare of having a second attack which can also bring about stress to the senior and their caregivers. Stroke has a way of affecting the patient physically and emotionally and it is not limited to the patient as it can also distress the people around them.
Stroke experts strongly recommend that seniors get back on their lives as soon as possible. That is the reason why rehabilitative therapies are aggressively given right after the doctor clears the patient. Seniors are also encouraged to get on with their social life and never detach from it since support can be found there. As much as possible, seniors who experienced a stroke should surround themselves with friends and families who will give them strength and will to get better and overcome the effects of stroke. There will be fright and it can be overwhelming, but the soonest the senior will learn to accept their condition, the better.
Remember, it is okay for you, the patient, not be able to do things on your own hence the need for a caregiver. Your caregiver should be your best ally since they will do the work for you while you strive to get better. It should not be embarrassing nor difficult for both of you so try to make things a little easier for your carer by expressing gratitude and not burden them with more work than needed. A simple “thank you” will go a long way.
There are support groups for both stroke patients and their caregivers. In support groups, seniors and their caregivers will be able to get valuable information on how to deal with life after stroke better, as well as get all the help they need to cope. Some support group even offer financial assistance should you find yourself in need of one.