Now that you finally gave in to your peer’s constant harassing, you find yourself staring helplessly to your supposedly profile page, not knowing what to do. Honestly, as much as Facebook is fun, it is equally complicated. On average, a person with no Facebook experience whatsoever in the past will spend at least half of the day before he can be left to his own devices. Of course, if you are to observe a child of three, an hour of tinkering would do.

What makes Facebook fun—and complicated—is that it can do more than add friends and post pictures like the old ones do. It can multitask and freakishly enough, it can even suggest friends whom you really know and not just random ones as if it has been stalking you all your life. But, the crowning glory of Facebook, and the most interesting of all, is its live feeds.

Opening a Facebook account is fairly easy. All you need is a valid email address and off you go. Make sure that you are using a VALID email address since Facebook will ask you to confirm via this email address. Now, moving on to the basics..

Since there will be millions upon millions of potential viewers, you might want to consider how much information you are willing to share. When using social networking sites, make sure that your safety and privacy come first. Also, don’t ever post pictures that you might regret seeing in the future since photo theft is very common in Facebook. Keep your private photos, well, private. You don’t need them to be in Facebook anyway. Privacy settings can be adjusted according to levels. It is highly advisable for you to go all “only friends”. This way you won’t risk being viewed by somebody you don’t know.

Search for your friends by doing an advance search. Upon finding them, hit the “Add as Friend” button and wait for their confirmation. You can also browse through your friend’s list for other people of interest. Furthermore, it is not unusual to receive a friend request from someone you don’t know since many online marketers are trying to penetrate Facebook via this route with no apparent success. If this happens to you, just hit the reject button, he won’t find out that you did anyway. If he persists then your last resort would be to block this person from having any connection with you.

Wall posts are those you write in the “what’s on your mind?” box. Be extra careful when posting in this little box since the whole Facebook community will be able to read it. Keep it simple and don’t communicate with someone using this option, instead send them a direct mail or write on their “walls”. Walls are what you see when you hit the profile button. That is your wall.

The first page you will see upon logging in is the live feeds. In this page, you’ll see your friends’ activities such as when they befriended someone or just won the poker game. When you opt to publish an activity, it will also appear on the live feeds, along with many others. Video posting, pictures and even editing your profiles goes straight in that page, notifying your friends of your movements. Speaking of your live feeds, it’s okay to comment on someone else’s activity if you wish to. In an event when a person is already cluttering your live feeds with too many annoying posts, hover your mouse just far opposite of your friend’s name until the “hide” button appears then choose what exactly it is that you want to hide.

Communicating in Facebook is the easiest of all. You can do the wall post from your own to all or directly to your friend’s wall. You can also send direct mails which will land straight to their inboxes and won’t be published to the live feeds or you can chat with them real time. Chatting with your friends in Facebook does not require rocket science, just find the “chat” box below, hit on that and check who’s online. If you don’t feel like chatting right now, choose offline.

It is okay to experience a couple of hit and miss posts. You can remove them from your wall anyway. It can be a bore during your first few days but as your friends increase in number and your live feeds roll like crazy, you will soon find yourself checking your account every hour of the day! Happy Facebooking!


It seems like everybody has been tweeting and it’s not about birds! One short trip to your favorite hairdresser and you’ll surely encounter the words “tweet”, “tweeting” and “twitter”; worse, you’ll have someone asking you of your Twitter ID! If you are not familiar with this free social networking/micro-blogging service that has been taking the world by storm, then it’s easy to get yourself embarrassed by the situation at hand for the Twitter community has their own “special” language to get by.

The way you use Twitter is very different from the traditional social networking sites we’ve grown so used to. Of course, it still requires a photo of you so you’ll be recognizable to your friends, in case they are hunting you down. Aside from that, you supply basic information about yourself in Twitter’s profile page, just enough to make new friends since it’s a very open community and new relationships are bound to form. You can also change your Twitter background, if you happen to be very experimental with your pages. What sets it apart is that the services seemed too limiting when in fact, it has one hundred and one ways of use for interested parties. Also, Twitter has been kind enough to allow different applications to access their sites making it so convenient to use even your two-year old grandchild can do it! It can also be linked to almost all social networking sites so tweeting will never be a problem.

Before we shake our tail feathers and just to give seniors who would like to dabble with Twitter an idea, it’s not always love-at-first-sight for Twitter. Some users go AWOL for quite sometime right after signing up only to revive the account months later. The usual problem is lack of friends. You see, if you don’t have someone to talk to in Twitter neither do you make friends that easily, it tends to be a tad boring there. Here are some basic Twitter tips to jumpstart your own little community:

·    Active participation is the key to a Twitter success. Survey shows that the most followed profiles in Twitter are those of opinionated people even if they are a little off the edge. Unless you prefer to stalk people, it is best if you already have an existing community there to join i.e your friends, family etc.
·    Your bio can be built overtime but most importantly is that you need to fill it up with something right after signing up. How else would your neighbor know it’s you if you don’t make yourself known? For safety reasons, do practice basic precautionary measures like never giving away your personal details. Like stated earlier, Twitter is an open place where everybody can view your profile—even to somebody you barely know.
·    Granted, Twitter is not a home for your lovely photo collection and users are given a limit of 140 characters for each tweet hence the importance of links. This community is most interested in clicking i.e following links to wherever it leads so give them that instead. Share your loot, and you’ll be loved. By the way, don’t just share, use URL shorteners.
·    Marketers find Twitter to be very useful. In fact, it was said that most conversions or sales come from the Twitter community. Due to this, more and more online marketing efforts are thrown at this side of town by the minute leaving a little breathing room for ordinary people like us. You can either scream “keep off the grass” or use them to your advantage. It’s your call.
·    RT means retweet. It’s okay to grab someone else’s tweet just as long as you give credit where it’s due.

Basically, that’s it. In time, you’ll eventually learn to walk the walk and talk the talk. Meanwhile, test your tweeting powers and bug your friends all day long!


If seniors are having a hard time maneuvering their way around the internet, it is not entirely their fault. Eyes maybe failing, cognitive functions could be a little bit impaired but most definitely, these are not the only reasons why seniors commit one too many mistakes when using the internet. It can also be blamed to the usability a website may possess.

It was said that the senior group is amongst the top three internet users, alongside women and teens. It only goes to show that the complexity or modernity of computers never hinders a senior to use them frequently—and for many reasons, that is. Like any other new and shiny things, it can be learned and seniors are definitely eager to learn!

According to the same study mentioned earlier, it was found out that email application is the most popular among seniors. In fact, it is the first thing they check upon waking up in the morning. Running close on its tail are news, research and online payments. Amazingly, a new trend is making waves, the ever popular social networking.

Among the most visited sites by seniors are Google and Facebook. When it comes to gaming, women over 55 prefer games from sites like Game House and Pogo. And what do these sites have in common? One word: simplicity. Their simple, user-friendly interface charms seniors mightily and in a way, earn their loyalty. Preferences have nothing to do with seniors’ eyesight or their ability to concentrate and comprehend things but it seems that busy, giddy web designs have a lot to do with it.

Web designers who assume too much from their visitors have a lot to learn. When it comes to website usability, seniors must be the right group to approach as they know exactly what they want and what works perfectly for them. Poor design makes it hard for seniors to explore the site even more, discouraging them from discovering your site’s real potential. No matter how good your content is, when its texts are barely readable and links are hidden like it’s a game of finders keepers, then you must know your website will not be on any senior’s bookmarks.


The worldwide web indeed has given us a wider scope in life making it possible to access tons of information just by simple web manipulation called “web surfing”. Bear in mind that this fun activity need not exert too much effort since one will only need a computer and an internet access. It can be done anywhere, anytime. The best thing about the internet is that it caters to all, young and old. It can also get you to places and through it, we are able to accomplish tasks that are otherwise hard for us to do back then.

Some of the finest points the internet has been giving us are:
·    Being able to pay your bills and do bank transactions through online banking.
·    Connecting you to your loved-ones without ever worrying about communication bills and such.
·    Online games for stress-free afternoons.
·    Online shopping saves you time, energy and gas. You don’t need to go far to buy your essentials. Just find a reputable supermarket or grocery website and place your order there. Some even provide free delivery service for your convenience.

Like stated earlier, these are just some of the things the internet can give you. See how easy—and tempting—it can be for seniors to take advantage of these services? Unfortunately, unscrupulous people are quick to get wind of it all and sadly, they consider seniors to be their most vulnerable targets. This makes it doubly hard for senior surfers to move around freely and without worries.

Identity theft in general is when a thief assumes an identity, stolen from another person, hopefully not you, and uses it to his or her advantage. Scarily, it can happen even in our normal, living world but with the advent of the internet, identity theft is now easier and faster to do. Losing a wallet can turn your life around in just one day especially if they fell into wrong but expert hands. One account I heard, after discovering about her lost wallet, which she guessed went missing for about two days prior to the discovery, she quickly called her bank, credit cards and others. Much to her dismay, the thief already did some damage and more. There had been online purchases charged to her account—and they are not cheap, mind you. And because she failed to notify the bank beforehand, she is now making some negotiations with the credit card company for payment terms.

In the internet world however, there is a threat known as phishing. This too attempts to collect your personal information which you stored in your system. These are viruses which you inadvertently downloaded through sites, both reputable and not. Apparently, they record your keyboarding activities and send it to a remote site which will leave your information to their mercy. Hacking is yet another way to access your online accounts and it is usually done by someone you know. Even scams-disguised as emails can easily find their way into your inboxes waiting to be clicked. Nothing beats right information to prevent identity theft from harming you. Read about them and be aware of these unlawful activities.


Personalized photo calendars make a great bonding activity for seniors and their grandkids. It can also be the perfect gift to give your elderly loved-one this coming holiday season. Personalized gifts like this are both delightful and inexpensive. They are sure to touch your loved-one’s heart! What more if one will be able to see cherished pictures of their families and friends all year-round? All the more better right?

Starting a personalized photo calendar project is easy, especially if you have a computer—better if you have an internet access since some of the best softwares for this can be downloaded for free over the internet. In doing so, you can save time and energy while producing quality results thus avoiding the “hit and miss” part of doing it manually. If both are out of the question, then you can still make your own personalized photo calendars the old school way—cutting and pasting, that is.

·    Scour for family photos that might be hidden in nooks and crannies of your house. If you intend to give this calendar to someone specific such as your grandmother or grandfather, make sure that you include pictures of those closest to their hearts and not of someone they barely know. Have them scanned if you will be using a computer for this. You can also use artworks and medals which they might have missed attending. One idea that could work is aligning the photos to correspond with a certain month. For example, your birthday is in May so put your picture in that month complete with inscriptions of the exact date.
·    Digital photos should be prepared prior to fitting them in your personalized calendar. When doing this, you will need an image enhancer such as Adobe Photoshop or even the one that comes with your computer setup. With them, you can rotate, enhance, crop and resize your photos.
·    Like stated earlier, there are software programs you can use to help you with your photo calendar ventures. They are easier to use since most of them will only require a user to upload photos then drag-drop them to your heart’s desire. For first time users, take advantage of free templates available for you to use.
·    The idea behind customized photo calendars is to make it as personalized as can be. Experiment with fonts, colors and layouts to help “personality” to come out. You can never go wrong with this so never hesitate. Get your creative juices flowing now. Don’t forget to hit that preview button before printing so you know what it looks like. Also, saving your work in a disc or USB can help you retrieve your original work in case something goes wrong.
·    If you are in doubt about printing your work, you can always bring it to photo shops to have it printed for you. It may cost you a little over your projected budget but it saves you a lot of trouble since printing a double sided page can be disorienting at times.
·    Some photo shops also do binding jobs. If yours do, then have it bound there as well or you can take it some place else for binding.


09 28th, 2009

Genealogy for Seniors

Remember those family trees with funny pictures you get to present in class when you were younger? If you happen to stumble upon one of yours or even your grandkid’s family tree project—if they even get to make those nowadays!—up in the attic today, you will know how good it feels just by looking at them and knowing where your roots are and how they have grown through the years.

Tracing your roots is a fun and fulfilling activity. It was even said that knowing where you came from is very essential to complete one’s being. It’s only then you can rest your troubled soul and be comfortable with your own person. Just take the case of an adopted child whose parents he never saw; just imagine the uneasiness his soul must have been going through all these years and I bet it won’t rest until he finds the only connection he has in this world—a connection only his biological parents can provide. Back then, tracing your roots can be a daunting task to take especially for seniors whose feet may be taken to different parts of the world in search of the missing link or a long-lost cousin. All thanks to the advent of technology, particularly that of the internet, genealogy is made easy and quite frankly, it’s amazing how people who are into genealogy help one another to find their roots the soonest possible time.

If this post got you interested with genealogy, you should know that there are about a hundred of genealogy sites in the web community today. This can make it a lot easier for you to start hunting down your relatives from way back when. The best way to start your adventure is to gather up everything you have—and might have—in your possession: pictures of family gatherings, documents, and even heirlooms. These are your clues in what seems to be a treasure hunt of your history. To make it more interesting, find a family member who is dead-set in finding his or her roots too to accompany you in this search. This makes a great bonding time for you and your kids also.

Interviews in forms of chitchats with relatives should also be performed when gathering clues. Your best candidate would be someone who was born several years before you, preferably a minimum of 10 years but when there’s none then anyone who’s nosy enough to know distant relatives unbeknownst to you would do fine. They don’t have to know specific dates or years as it may be a little hard to remember all that but names and locations can definitely help you so much. Jot down notes and go to your friendly neighborhood library where newspaper clippings are free for everyone to view. I hear these collections are now kept in slides for easy browsing. You can also consult your ever-dependable Google and just type in your keywords. Some areas still have a Family History Center, although it can be rare, but if yours happen to have one then you’re in luck!

Try to come up with important documents such as birth, marriage and death certificates, wills and just about anything that has a definite date you can look up to. This way you will have a clear point of reference, time-wise. When faced with a dead-end, it’s ok to feel disappointed but it also helps to bounce back and try other leads once more since this activity should be fun and must yield positive results for you.


Just imagine how good it can be if you go through retirement as planned and still have a little something to sustain your luxuries in life. Great, isn’t it? But with the worsening economic status felt the world over, it is easy for retiring seniors to have serious doubts about their well-planned retirement. In fact, most seniors delay retirement as much as they could just because they felt they are not quite ready for it yet.

The pockets may not agree with your desires anytime soon but let’s not forget that the body does have its own limitations and sooner or later, it is bound to shout “enough is enough” at you. Certainly, you wouldn’t want this time to arrive especially when there are still sights to see and things to experience and you need your body to be at its top-shape when they happen. The good news is, you can still make it happen, on your own terms—and while taking your own sweet time.

Scouring the streets for a job, both part-time and full-time is dead flat hard especially for seniors who might have been enduring bodily aches and pain all the while. Lay-offs are not only a scare for seniors but may also signify the end of comfortability and the start of something really doubtful for aging bodies to undertake. Unfortunately, layoffs know no boundaries and it will come when it does. The worst thing that can ever happen to a person is when you are down and broke the moment a nasty layoff comes your way. The good news is, seniors can now welcome them with open arms and even quit their jobs ahead of time if they want to without feeling guilt and remorse over the matter. All you need is a computer and a good internet connection. Considering that these two are almost a staple to anybody’s home, there’s nothing to hinder a senior from acquiring an online retirement job that is easily manageable and rewarding too!

The world of internet is a very vast place wherein you can see great opportunities especially if you’re creative and resourceful. Experts say that online opportunities are virtually boundless and they are just waiting to be discovered by anyone who has the inclination to do so. Truly, the world your internet has created is one that’s entirely separated from the world we’re so used to living in. Career-wise, internet marketing is the most popular route one can take but the competition is a little stiff there and it can get really dirty at times—a situation that is not so healthy for seniors who are looking for a slower pace in life but suits perfectly for those who love challenges.

The idea is to find the job that suits you most. It must be something that you are most comfortable in doing and it should feel less of a burden. It can be an interest such as photography or web design. It can be a skill such as organizational skills for office or businesses. You can even be a blogger for somebody so you can satisfy both heart and wallet. For those with little or no work experience at all, there are paid surveys you can participate in. Bottom line is, your work level is never put in question when in comes to online retirement jobs, it’s only your willingness to try since most jobs won’t require you even a penny to spend but will reward you just the same.


For once, let us put aside the common misconception that seniors have slow learning capacity, avoid all complex things and most of all, they are NOT so into computers. Let us consider that not all seniors fall into a category wherein staring at the computer 24/7 is not an option. There may have been a number of them who are considered “computer illiterate” but let me assure you, there are just a few of them who developed quite an indifference towards computers. Many have acquired computer experience through working since computers have become a staple for offices and businesses, both big and small.

According to a study, almost ¾ of the senior population is very much updated with the computer and all its happenings, even social media sites and social networking. The remaining seniors are only hindered by one reason or another but definitely, the usage is never dependent on one’s age. Thanks to nonstop improvements made for internet users, the computer has grown user-friendly over the years, providing the ease of use everytime—even a two year old kid can operate a computer nowadays! Also, as seniors begin to discover new things via the internet, the more it becomes easier for them to navigate their way around.

There are many reasons why a senior may opt to use computers instead of any other means of communication to the world. It was found out that if a senior has an offspring who uses social networking sites on a regular basis, it can be reason enough for them to explore what’s in there too. Having a grandchild that “twitters” all day can double that effort since seniors may see this as the easiest venue to keep in touch with their loved-ones and have a little piece of their grandchild’s day too without having to impose or demand for their time. Here are some more reasons why seniors are enjoying the internet more than ever:

·    Online games have never been more fun! They can be quite addicting too especially now that they have successfully integrated with most social media sites like Facebook and MySpace.
·    News hunting is made easy with the use of RSS feeds paired with feed readers.
·    It is easier for seniors to maintain social relationships even without going out. Stay in the comfort of your home but be able to communicate with people who matter most.
·    Seniors shop online. They also do their research via the internet because it’s faster and easier.
·    It keeps them updated with the latest happenings and trends the world over.
·    The internet is like a one-stop shop, everything you need is in there, just a few clicks away.
·    Support groups and online communities for seniors are updating over the internet as well.


The internet has become as necessary as food and shelter for mankind and this includes the boomer generation. Gone are the days when seniors were afraid of the advancement in technology. They are more daring and willing to learn now, more than ever.

The embracement of technology came as no surprise for many since the internet has been providing new and efficient ways in making our lives a little easier to live. Certainly if younger generation can make use of these conveniences, why not seniors?.. In reality, it is the younger ones who encourage seniors to use computers as they will benefit from it tremendously.

Without seniors even realizing it, they have been receiving a lot from the advancement in technology. Take for example the ever-evolving medical advancement which extends lives. Without them, an aging body harassed by everyday stress can never last that long. On the other hand, one of the most important benefits the internet can give you is bridging the gap between seniors and their loved-ones who are miles away from them now—a common setup for many families worldwide.

Seniors who have learned to use computers were able to connect with their loved-ones in many ways. In popular social networking sites such as Facebook, seniors are able to get to know their grandkids better through live feeds. This kind of interaction is never possible if they will only rely on telephone conversations and letters. Also, the internet proved to be more cost-effective than any other communication means. There are tools available over the internet which provide the ease of use for elderly users. Some can even be downloaded for free. Others come with the computer itself like onscreen keyboards, magnifier and narrator.

Aside from the communication side of it, the internet can also be utilized for other things such as paying bills or buying stuff online. This alone can be of big help for seniors especially for those with mobility problems. Almost all banks do online transactions making it easier and safer for seniors to manage their bank accounts. Basic online safety measures should be applied when dealing with personal information as such. Read more about online safety here.

Communication as well as range and scope of seniors are not the only ones improved by the internet. Even socializing and potentially meeting a partner can be achieved when you finally get used to using the internet. There are hundreds of online dating sites intended for seniors and they are a surefire way to meet other seniors who are looking for love.


10 30th, 2007

Techie Oldies

Picture your grandmother going techie at times of emergency. If you the scene, then you might be understanding the concept of 911 Senior Cell Phone Program. Sheriff Michael J. Bouchard from Oakland County Sheriff’s Office invites everyone to take part of this program, especially those in the community who has cell phones that are no longer in use.

Aside from equipping the seniors with mobile phones, this program also gives them convenience by typing 9-1-1 in their keypads during emergency. This will definitely provide them faster access to 911.

“I hope the senior citizens of the county will take the opportunity to be part of this program. Having a mobile, emergency means of communication is like having an insurance policy,” Bouchard said. “You don’t know if you’re going to need it, but if you do, you’re covered. It’s quick, easy and could save lives.”

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